Or as Maya Angelou so eloquently stated,
(doesn't she always).
"You may not control all the events that happen to you,
but you can decide not to be reduced by them.
Try to be a rainbow in someone's cloud.
Do not complain.
Make every effort to change things you do not like.
If you cannot make a change, change the way you have been thinking.
You might find a new solution."
Love,
Grammy T.